Should I Wait, My Living Situation Is Making Me Feel Frustrated!?
February 8th, 2010
Hi there, I have been on and off with my partner now for a year, he has his own house, but after a year he owes a lot of debt, remortgage, loans etc so I moved out and now he has tenants in his house, which is fine. I currently moved back in with my parents and rent my own flat as at the time I was living with my partner as needed someone in my flat at the time. The question is, my partner is hoping to pay off his debts by May/June time by which that time he says I can move back in because then he would be ready and admits that he cant exactly marry me or get engaged to me when his finances are like this, which was my point exactly.
I am stuck inbetween moving out of my parents into my flat so I get my independence back or wait until 6 months to move back in with him, I feel in limbo and nowhere structured. My parents are saying dont move back into your flat because I am not gaining anything and my partner says he can rent another room out from his house, move into my flat and give me some money towards my mortgage to help out. Why do I feel frustrated and confused and angry, its like I want things to move forward between us but stuck in a rut….xx
thanks for reading and look forward to your replies
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You have a lot going on in your life at the moment . Maybe you should just take some time out for yourself …stay in your own flat and don’t make any decisions for a while…don’t be in to much of a hurry to move back with your bf or to have him move in with you…just take some time to clear your head and then make your decision.
Your frustration comes from taking advice from others rather than making your own decisions We all make mistakes in life but at least we can only blame ourselves.
Tough Story, Do what ever you think and feel is right, Good Luck. I think you should leave, Sorry
Go with your gut and not your parents or your boyfriend’s feelings.
end it.